“Do not go where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
That quote got me thinking about fear. How scary is it to do your own thing!? You think, “who am I to do things differently?”
“What if I try something new and I fail?”
“People will think I’m foolish or stupid!”
I’m dealing with it right now. For me, starting this blog was an enormous fear! I toyed with the idea for years, but I was too scared to do it.
“What if it’s stupid?”
“What if I don’t get any readers?”
“What if it ends up being a ginormous failure!?”
That’s me, out there, on the internet, exposed for the world to judge. Scary!
But the thing is, our fears are glaring signs for us to stretch our boundaries; To get out of our comfortable safe little boxes and take a leap of faith. And it’s thrilling because when you exercise your muscle against fear, you open up possibilities that weren’t there before.
It’s a concept that has to do with yoga-you pause in these challenging, sometimes god-awful poses (chair pose, I hate you!) and you breathe through it. It’s horrible and overwhelming and you start to shake, but you get familiar with being uncomfortable. You immerse yourself in it because once you come out of it, you understand that the pose hasn’t done you in. You’re still here, and you’re stronger for getting through it. Then a challenge comes up that has nothing to do with yoga, but you know know how to handle it. You breathe and you get through it and you recognize that it’s not going to do you in.
The kicker? Fear never goes away. It will be by your side through every decision you face, every day you are alive. Might as well get to know it, right? You can’t run away from it. It’ll follow you like Creepy Apartment Guy. No? Just me? Maybe it’s time to move…
It’s always going to be scary. That’s what fear is, duh, but it’s also incredibly empowering when you face it head on and give fear the finger. This blog is me giving fear the finger. So I hope you will join me and raise your finger to fear, whatever that means for you. I think this little blog is going to be an incredible, scary, exciting, sexy and fun journey 😉
Keep it Passionate Peeps!